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Parents who disrespect boundaries may have experienced emotional neglect

Trying to control adult children and disrespecting their boundaries may be more than just bad parenting—it can be a sign of deep emotional wounds.

According to psychotherapist Sean Grover, LCSW, this kind of behavior often stems from childhood emotional neglect. In an article for Psychology Today, Grover explains that some parents try to fill the emotional gaps from their past by seeking unconditional love and validation from their children.

“Parents may attach their need for affection, approval, and love to their child,” Grover writes. This often starts when the child is young and fully dependent on the parent. During that time, the parent feels “nourished” or emotionally fulfilled.

But problems begin when the child grows up and starts showing independence. These toxic parents often see their child’s growing individuality as a threat. Instead of adapting, they may respond with guilt-tripping, emotional manipulation, or constant criticism—behaviors that can be extremely harmful.

In situations like the one we mentioned earlier, this can create a damaging parent-child relationship. The child, in turn, may feel ashamed for having personal needs, struggle with low self-esteem, and develop trust issues that affect their adult life.

This is why it’s important to understand the signs of emotional abuse and the importance of mental health in families. Setting emotional boundaries isn’t just healthy—it’s necessary for both personal growth and psychological well-being.

It is better to avoid conflict with parents who lack respect for your boundaries