Controversial Sex Stories That Split The Internet

Sex can be many things. It can be fantastic, it can be awful, it can be loud, it can be weird, it can be awkward for those around you. That’s why sex can spark so many unique conversations and disagreements. After those talks, some people go to the AmItheA**hole subreddit and ask for an objective opinion to know if what they said and did was okay.

From falling asleep while having sex to confronting your roommate about having sex in shared spaces, there are many times when talking about sex gets downright uncomfortable. Who is right and who is wrong?

Stories have been edited for length and clarity.

1

AITA For Walking In On My Roommate Having Sex?

From Redditor u/ThatMassiveOwl:

I’ve been living with my roommate for about a year now. He’s a nice fellow, and we get along just fine. His girlfriend is often around and is also a very nice person. We never really had problems so far. I don’t generally stay at home for long periods of time; it’s essentially just a sleep/eat place. I work a lot of hours and a lot of overtime. It’s the nature of my job, since I’m still new in my workplace and all that. Usually, I get home around ten or eleven in the evening and leave my home at eight. So yes, I work a lot and don’t really spend a lot of time there.

Yesterday, I managed to receive some good graces with my boss, and he told me I could go home early (around six, and yes, I know it’s not really early, but for me it is). I got home, and I was already craving some unhealthy food and my bed. It was Friday, so yeah, I was looking forward to it.

My apartment isn’t that big, and our door opens up to the living room. Once I pushed it open, I unwillingly saw my roommate and his girlfriend having sex. In our living room, on OUR couch. They were startled, and I immediately closed the door in front of me and said through the door, “Go to your room.” After some sounds, I hear his door close. I opened the door, and that was it. I mean, it’s embarrassing to walk in on someone, but that can happen; it is not the end of the world.

I went to the bathroom, had a shower, went to my room to watch some Netflix, and thought that was it. After a few hours, my roommate took his GF home and came to talk to me. Initially, I thought he would apologize for being… less than careful. However, that wasn’t the case. This dude started to get mad at me for not “letting them know I would be home early.” He said that his GF was completely ashamed, and I should APOLOGIZE to her.

Now, I’m usually a very calm person. But this dude is right here telling me to apologize for getting in MY HOME early while he has a PERFECTLY good bedroom. The apartment has a very good sound isolation due to how it was constructed, so if they wanted to go wild there, I would be none the wiser. They actively decided to do it in a place where exposition was possible. So I told him flat out, “Nah, man. You’re the idiot who tried to do something stupid while sharing an apartment. You didn’t tell me you were planning on doing that. I had no way of knowing. I’m sorry your girlfriend is ashamed, but I’m not apologizing.”

Things escalated from that point. There were a lot of angry remarks and things said. He started to call me an a**hole for not being considerate. Now, if he hadn’t been such a stupid person, I wouldn’t mind apologizing to his GF. I understand it’s an embarrassing situation, and I don’t particularly have anything against her. But he got on my nerves.

So, I want to ask, AITA for simply not trying to take the blame for something I had absolutely no fault in?

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AITA For Refusing To Tell My 11-Year-Old Niece How Gay Sex Works?

From a former Redditor:

Okay, the title is wild. I apologize for any brain cells lost reading this.

People:
– Me – 24M
– My Fiancé – 25M
– My Niece – 11F
– My SIL – 34F
– My Brother – 38M
– My Dad – 60M

My dad’s birthday was yesterday, so we agreed that, since the COVID laws in the country allow it, we would come together and celebrate because he had been alone for the majority of COVID.

My niece has always known I was gay, and she knows how heterosexual sex works because she has had sex ed in school (crappy year six sex ed, but still, she has basic knowledge). She’s friendly with my fiancé, and he’s friendly to her, but they have the obvious boundaries that you should have with someone who is going to be your uncle.

My fiancé and I were eating on the other side of the garden because of a play fight we had with dad, and then my niece came over and asked how two men have kids. I told her that we’d just adopt a baby, but that she would definitely get cousins to play with (because I thought the problem was that she thought she’d get no cousins). Then she started pushing that if neither of us were a girl, then how do we “love” each other, and my fiancé said that two men “do it differently” but that we still love each other. More pushing, until she literally said to my fiancé, “Where do you put your willy?” We both started laughing and saying that when she got older, she would find out, and that she didn’t need to know right now.

She started to cry and said we were making fun of her, and I tried telling her that it was just a bit uncomfortable for us to tell her about something (sex) that she had only just been given details about. When my SIL heard my niece crying she came over and was less than pleasant about how “we made her cry.” We told her what my niece had asked about, and she said that we should “have told her because she’s old enough.” We then told her that we didn’t feel comfortable doing that and that if my niece was really itching to know how two men have sex then her and my brother should tell her.

Then my dad and brother heard the commotion and came over. When my dad realized what was happening, he started laughing really hard, which just made my niece cry more. It got so bad that my brother, SIL, and niece left.

I feel like absolute sh*t.

3

AITA For Not Explaining Why I Didn’t Want Sex On A Fourth Date?

From Redditor u/Anonymous-Amy:

I (28F) met a guy (35M). We really got on; he was such a gentleman. Then, on our 4th date, we decided to have a marathon of Game of Thrones in preparation for season 8. So, I went to his house for the first time. We ended up falling asleep on the sofa, so we then went to bed. It was pretty late, and I was exhausted, and I just really didn’t want sex, like really didn’t want sex. So I figured when we went to bed, I simply went to sleep. He would have figured I didn’t want sex, right?

He woke me up about an hour later really pissed off saying, “Do you have a rule or something, because if you do I should know about it? You have made me feel really sh*t and blown my self esteem completely.” So I told him I just wasn’t ready. He reaaallly didn’t appreciate me saying this. Apparently I should have said before the date???? Like seriously? Is it a rule to decide before a date if you are going to have sex or not?!

I’m trying to explain to him that before the date, I hadn’t ruled out sex altogether. I was just going to see how we got on and where the night led. I told him it was all a bit odd that he got angry about it, but he’s fumingggg.

Either way, roll on watching Season 8 alone haha!

EDIT: I told him beforehand that I was nervous about dating and wanted to take the whole process slow. He was fine with this and told me we can go as slow as needed.

4

AITA For Playing Loud, Annoying Music When My Roommate Was Having Sex?

From Redditor u/837523584397:

She and her boyfriend are really loud. If this were during a reasonable hour, then I’d be better with it, but this is literally midnight to 3 am (not for all 3 hours, but starts any time in this window). This keeps me awake when I have to work morning shifts and get to work for 5 am most days, so I really need to be able to sleep through the night, which she knows. Even with earplugs, they still managed to wake me. I tried wearing earplugs, then headphones; neither worked, so I’ve asked them to keep it down more than once.

Last night, they were being exceptionally loud, and when I asked them to keep it down, she insisted that I couldn’t hear anything. I took out my phone and Bluetooth speaker, put the speaker in a bookshelf that is up against our shared wall, and played whatever songs I could think of to ruin the mood.

The songs included, but were not limited to:

– “I Just Had Sex” and “Finest Girl” by Lonely Island
– “Bananaphone”
– “We Should Definitely Not Have Sex Right Now” from Crazy Ex Girlfriend
– “Always Look on the Bright Side of Life”

And a few others.

About half an hour went by, and she left her room and pounded on my door, telling me to keep it down. The walls are paper-thin, so she can hear the music the same way I can hear the moaning.

Today at breakfast, she said, “We’ll keep it down from now on, you don’t have to be such a d*ck about it.”

I thought we’d be able to laugh it off because they were jokey songs that I picked, clearly for a laugh, and I figured she’d see the funny side, but then she said the thing about me not having to be a d*ck about it, and now I feel like a d*ck.

Am I the a**hole?

5

AITA For Having Sex That Is ‘Too Loud’ With My Fiancé?

From a Redditor:

So I live on the second floor of an apartment complex with my fiancé. When we moved in, we offered our cell numbers to the neighbor below us, in case we were ever too loud, so they could hit us up to ask us to be quieter, but they declined each time.

Now the rules with the apartment are “quiet hours” are between 9 pm and 7 am. After a week, the neighbor tells us we walk too loudly and we need to stop at 8 pm because that’s when he goes to bed for the night. So we did our best to adjust for him.

Then yesterday, about 5 pm, my fiancé and I were going at it, and our neighbor below us bangs on his ceiling/our floor mid-sex, which killed my SO’s mood, so we stopped. Then, about 5 minutes later, the dude bangs on our door and yells at us that he doesn’t wanna hear us f*cking and threatens to call the cops or apartment management if he ever hears us again.

So, am I the a**hole here for getting down, or is he the a**hole for losing his sh*t and demanding we change our lives for him?

6

AITA For Telling My Friend That My Sex Life Has Nothing To Do With Her?

From a former Redditor:

My friend “Olivia” (25F) has been living at the home of my partner (30M) and me (26F) for a few weeks as she has had some financial problems and was evicted from her own home. That’s fine – she cleans up after herself, she’s respectful of house rules, etc.

Anyway, she pulled me aside a couple of days ago and asked me if I’m really dating my partner, or if we’re just pretending. I asked her what put that in her head, and she said that he and I never do couple-y things like kissing or PDA, etc. She also brought up the fact that we don’t share a bedroom and asked if everything was okay in our sex life.

I am asexual, and so is my partner. My friend is not aware of this, as I have not come out to anyone about this, but still… It’s a weird question to ask, isn’t it? Also, it’s ludicrous to me that she concluded that my partner and I are in a fake relationship.

I said everything was fine, and it’s really none of her business. She dropped it, but then yesterday she brought it up again, saying she was concerned because I seemed quite defensive and snappy when she brought up my sex life in the prior conversation. I’m not always aware of my tone of voice. I have alexithymia and autism, so I’m not very good at reading/recognizing emotions in myself, so I could well have come across as defensive without realising, but I don’t know.

She then went on, saying she wanted to continue the conversation and asking if I was “waiting till marriage?” And whether or not my religion was forcing that, as she noticed I didn’t seem happy about discussing it with her the last time she tried to, so it might be a difficult topic for me.

I said that she was correct. I didn’t want to talk about it with her because, again, it’s none of her business, so I would appreciate it if she stopped trying to.

She told me I was being rude when she was just looking out for me, and the least I could do was appreciate her support. She has been a victim of Christian purity culture, so I understand she was trying to help or to make sure I was okay, but I don’t appreciate her still trying to talk to me about it after I told her I didn’t want to.

AITA?

7

AITA For Suggesting Our Pets Stay Out Of The Bedroom During Sex?

From Redditor u/Yinonormal:

My girlfriend has chihuahuas. There is one that likes to stay inside our room a lot. I like her as well. I just don’t feel well when we are intimate, and she is either right beside her or by her head while we have sex.

She does not have any PTSD or anything like that; she just does not see a problem with being with us.

I tried to explain how weird it is, and it just made me feel like I was mean, trying to kick her out.

So, Reddit, am I an a**hole for trying to kick a dog out of the room while having sex?

8

AITA For Having Sex On The Night Of My Brother’s Wedding?

From a former Redditor:

I was the best man for my brother’s wedding, and the maid of honor was his bride’s sister. I am 24M while my sister-in-law (Katie) was 20F. We really hit it off right away. We study the same subject in school, she’s witty and funny, and we got along really well.

On the day of the wedding, my brother and dad pull me aside and give me strict orders not to talk or initiate anything with Katie. I said that would be hard as we literally walk up the aisle together. He said that was fine, but other than that, no contact. He then turned to me and said, “This is my day, I can tell you like her by the way you guys interact, stop being so selfish, bro, and be a good brother for once in your life.” This shocked me as we had a good relationship, but I get that he was stressed.

The wedding was going well, and I obeyed them for the first part of the day. She wanted to dance, but I said no. She looked hurt and confronted me when I was getting a drink. She said, “We were having so much fun before the day of the wedding, what changed? I really like you and want to get to know you better. Do you feel the same way”? I said yes, apologized, and we danced.

My dad forcibly tried to pull me off the dance floor, but I ignored him. I got a text from my brother during the party that I was not to talk to her. I replied, “Dude, WTF, I get it’s your day, but what’s the deal?” We ended up making out after my brother left with his bride for the hotel. We went back to the hotel holding hands, laughing, and finally kissed. Well, we had sex in my room, and I got her number, and we are going to have a real first date this week.

I got a text from my brother later that day that his new wife told him what happened, and he was extremely angry and couldn’t believe I was so selfish.

My dad threw a fit when he found out and said he won’t pay for my wedding when it happens. I told him IDC because I have a good job now. I feel bad, though. Did I ruin the day for my brother? AITA?

9

AITA For Falling Asleep During Sex?

From Redditor u/catcars:

So hear me out, my wife and I have been trying for a baby this year. Having kids is something she’s always wanted and is very adamant about.

I work a manual labor job for 8-12 hours a day. Sometimes, when I get home, all I want to do is eat and sleep, maybe mix a shower in there sometimes. Anyway, so last night I got home after a 12-hour shift of working in the sun and was ready to crash out, and of course, it had to be ovulation time. I told my wife how tired I was and that I wasn’t in the mood. She insisted that she do all the work and that it’d help me sleep better. Okay, can’t argue with that. She’s on top, riding her heart out, and within maybe 2 minutes, I fall asleep. She tried to wake me up, but I was out.

This morning, I woke up to a very upset wife, angry that we missed “her most fertile time.” She was crying and said I must not be attracted to her if I can’t stay awake for five minutes, and that I wasn’t serious about having kids with her as well. I kept trying to remind her that I told her I was tired before we even started, but she wasn’t listening. Then I asked if it was possible that her ovulation was messing with her hormones and she was overreacting. She hasn’t spoken to me since this morning. So AITA??

Edit 1: My wife and I talk pretty openly about how her hormones during her period change the way she acts and reacts sometimes. Didn’t think this would be different.

Edit 2: I work long hours at a physically demanding job, specifically for her and the baby we’re trying to bring into this world. I want to be able to provide for my family, so her accusing me of not really wanting a baby is ridiculous, and she knows it.

10

AITA If I Record Audio Of My Neighbors Having Sex And Play It Back To Them?

From a former Redditor:

My neighbors are often super loud, blasting music at 2 am, yelling, and blaring the TV. I’ve gone round various times politely asking if they could be quieter. We have concrete walls and carpet, so for sound to get through, they really have to be loud, which they are. They also periodically have loud sex, with the woman screeching. It’s actually turning me off sex. I find them insufferable.

As petty revenge, I’m considering recording them having sex and playing it back to them through the walls whenever they’re loud, instead of going round to politely request they STFU at 3 am. I feel they know I’m mild-mannered, and they’re taking advantage. That since I’m not a tough guy or something (I’m a young woman), they don’t care.

I’m in Australia, and I’m pretty sure that kind of recording is legal here.

11

AITA For Yelling At My Boyfriend To ‘Just Shut Up’ When He Tried Giving Me A Corporate Finance Lecture During Sex?

From a former Redditor:

My (23F) boyfriend (24M) works for a bank. He does stuff like financial modeling all day. I don’t really understand it despite some basic accounting concepts.

Anyway, I work for a mid-sized company that is going to be taken over by a private equity firm. My company is public, and so is the acquiring private equity company. I mentioned this to my boyfriend as a passing point of interest and told him that I hope it didn’t have a huge effect on me.

After that, my boyfriend, who’s working from home, said that he’d look into it. And holy sh*t. He will not stop talking about it now. He took all of my company’s public financial statements and created a Microsoft Excel model about the probability of the deal working out.

At first, I was pretty interested. He taught me something about what a “leveraged buyout” is. That was a week ago. I’m dead serious when I say he won’t stop talking about it. He talks about it all the time, constantly updating me with new information about how the deal may fall through, what the private equity company might do to cut costs, who might lose their jobs, how much profit the private equity company could make, how his and his friend’s interviews went at that private equity company (and how he didn’t get the job), the current interest rate climates, “J Pow and the fed,” how the private equity company may benefit from waiting to privatize my company, etc…

It’s literally all he talks about now. We were having sex this evening when we (while pretty tipsy) were talking about the whole “waiting to privatize” thing. I was literally having sex with him during this. Eventually, I just had enough and yelled at him to shut up about it.

He seemed really hurt and didn’t say much after that. He went back to his apartment, and, after not answering some of my texts, said I was being really harsh and that he wanted some alone time. He’s not answering my messages now.

Was I actually overstepping by yelling at him to stop? I guess maybe I could have asked more nicely, but this was literally during sex.

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AITA For Telling My Sister To Quit Having Unprotected Sex, Or Else I’ll Tell Our Parents?

From Redditor u/Sudden-World78:

My (20F) sister Bella (18F) recently got her first boyfriend, Brad. He is older than her (24M) and has a bit of a reputation. Our parents are very conservative, and Bella hasn’t told them about him yet.

Yesterday, our parents were gone, and Bella invited him to our house. I could hear them having sex because her room is right next to mine. After he left, I wanted to discuss this with Bella. I asked her if they were being safe. To my surprise, she told me straight up they were having unprotected sex because Brad refused a condom as “it doesn’t feel the same.”

I explained to her that, in addition to the risk of STDs (who knows how many girls this guy has slept with), there is the obvious risk of pregnancy. She told me that Brad had assured her that the pull-out method is “safe” and “he never had any problems.” I told her that’s obviously not true. Honestly, I blame her poor knowledge because sex is a taboo topic in our family, and our mother never had these conversations with us.

Anyway, I told her that she should quit seeing this guy, or I’ll tell our parents about it. She got mad and told me to leave her room. We haven’t talked since then, and I am not sure what to do going forward, as I am really worried for her.

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AITA For ‘Policing’ My Housemates’ Sex Life?

From Redditor u/fruittellaman:

A couple of months ago, I (21M) had an absolute nightmare with my landlord/living situation, which basically resulted in me becoming homeless overnight. I ended up staying in a hotel for two days before a friend (27M) offered to lease me the spare room in his house while I tried to sort something else. I was pretty blown away by his kindness, as we’re not that close, just in the same friendship group. Gratefully, I signed a six-month lease and moved in.

Here’s the thing: this guy and his wife’s (24F) sex life is honestly kinda f*cking bonkers. For a start, they do the DD/lg thing full-time at home, which I’m incredibly uncomfortable with. Like, she fully dresses like a toddler, sucks a dummy, and plays with baby toys and stuff when they’re both home. No offense if you’re into that, but it f*cking skeeves me out. Won’t get into it, but I have a lot of past trauma that makes that stuff make my skin crawl.

Further, they have sex all the time and everywhere. I get home from work, and they’re just banging on the couch with the living room door wide open. I go to get a glass of water, and they’re f*cking on the kitchen table. I go for a piss and they’re shagging in the shower without the door locked. She’s even made comments that allude to them doing it on my bed while I’m not there. It’s reached a point where I’m barely leaving my room for fear of walking in on them.

A week or so ago, I asked if they wouldn’t mind dialing it back a little bit with the sex and kink-related stuff. I’ve essentially been told that I’m under their roof, and this is how they live, so I have to deal with it. Also got a strip torn off of me for kinkshaming and was told I have no right to police their sex life. They also complained of having heard my boyfriend (20M) and me when he’s been over, so we’re even on me walking in on them.

I’m really not trying to police anyone’s sexuality here, but I’m seriously stressed with the situation. AITA?

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AITA For Blanking My Girlfriend Over A ‘Sex Strike’?

From Redditor u/DazzlingIsopod:

My GF and I have been together for 4-5 years now. It’s been a pretty smooth ride, not a lot of bullsh*t from her (or me), even though we are different people. She’s very involved, she keeps up with a lot of topics, and is pretty political. Basically, she’s pretty feminist, and I don’t care either way. I like to think I’m laid back, just enjoying games and friends and sh*t.

Anyway, apparently, there’s some political controversy down south, and some celebrity or whatever suggested a sex strike (can’t remember her name). My GF stayed over last night, and we got to talking about this, somehow. She went on about it and said a sex strike was a reasonable idea. I respectfully disagreed, a minor argument ensued, and it ended with her wanting to do the sex strike sh*t, to show solidarity.

Now I’m not just about sex, but a sex strike, because some celebrity said so, seems to be insane. After she left, I got to thinking that she is basically supporting punishing men that aren’t involved, and that our relationship is gonna suffer a sh*tload.

So I’m currently not responding to her calls and her messages. She’s getting upset from what I’ve gathered, but honestly, her just f*cking over the dynamic because of some celebrity bullsh*t might be a dealbreaker for me. Gonna break up if she follows through, currently blanking her because I’m annoyed. AITA?

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AITA For Asking My Wife For An Open Relationship After Two Years Without Sex?

From Redditor u/Youlookmywayoften:

It feels weird to type, but next year I will be 30. I have been married since I was 22. My wife is the same age.

Three years ago, she had just beaten cervical cancer. She had surgery, and she was a soldier throughout the whole process. I am very proud of her. After the surgery, we didn’t have sex for obvious reasons, and I accepted that. However, she still gave me oral sex frequently. I would try to please her as best I could without hurting her, but it’s tough.

Eventually, her sex drive disappeared completely. She just did not want to be intimate anymore. This has been going on for two years. She will give me oral sex on my birthday or special occasions, but that’s it. I am still very attracted to my wife. I love her very much. I do not want to give up sex for the rest of my life. I have talked to her numerous times, and she’s just not into it anymore. It’s not a pain thing but a desire thing.

I have been reading up on open relationships, basically just flings to satisfy my needs as a man while still living and loving my wife. She was not receptive to the idea at all, to say the least. Crying, yelling, you name it. She doesn’t understand why I’d even ask. Even after I explain. I want to grow old with her, but I don’t want to be old now and give up sex.

I don’t even know what I could’ve done differently in this besides just shut up and be celibate forever.

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AITA For Being Honest About Honeymoon Sex?

From a former Redditor:

My fiancé and I (I’m 26, he’s 28) are taking an 8-day honeymoon in Brazil, which is where he is originally from. This trip has been in the works for a long time, and a few weeks ago I learned that his parents were hoping to stop by and visit us during our honeymoon and even asked to stay with us (we have rented a 3-bedroom place near a beach) for 2 of the nights.

I said absolutely not, and my husband agreed. He told them no, that it’s because we want our privacy. His parents, whom I have grown very close to, sent me a separate text asking, in a lighthearted way (I thought!), if it was really a big problem and if I agreed with him, and I said yes, I did agree.

His mom asked me why, and I was honest. I said I want to be able to be open and free with him, without thinking about houseguests. She said, “So this is about sex?” I thought she was still being lighthearted, and I replied, “If I’m being honest, I’m going to f*ck his brains out in every room of that house.”

No response.

So, this has become a whole thing. My mother-in-law thinks I’m disrespectful. My father-in-law thinks I’m a sex monster of some kind, and my husband thinks it was way too far for me.

AITA? Do I owe them an apology?

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AITA For Refusing To Stay Somewhere Else So My Mom Can Have Sex?

From Redditor u/Waste-Ad8081:

It’s my (19F) birthday on Saturday, and I plan to go out drinking and come home to sleep after I’m done.

My mom (43F) came into my room the other day, asking me if I wanted to go and stay somewhere on that Saturday night so she could have her man over to do the deed. I was obviously upset by this and told her I planned on coming home as I wanted to sleep in my own bed. She then insisted that I go and stay with a friend because she didn’t want to have to go out to do whatever (my twin siblings would also be out of the house; they are 5 and staying with my grandparents). I said it is not my problem that she wants someone to stay over, and I will be coming home to sleep. She then told me that she would be loud and make sure to wake me up to hear, and made it clear she did not want me home. This could have been a joke, but either way, that is not normal to say to your child, right?

For context, I have been hearing my mom have sex with her boyfriends at the time since I was around 10 years old, and I had complained multiple times about hearing this. I obviously don’t want to come home and hear my mom having sex, but I also want to sleep at home, as it is my bed and I also live there. We’ve been going back and forth on this, and now I’m going to stay somewhere else, but I still feel like she is in the wrong for asking me to leave in the first place. IDK what to think. I understand where she is coming from, but still?

Edit: I feel like I need to clear some things up. First of all, no, I do not pay rent because I simply cannot afford to. I live in the UK, so there is no underage drinking. I cannot simply move out. That is easier said than done, and when I go to uni next year, I do plan on leaving, and my mom also agrees that then will be the best time for me to move.

I am still in full-time education and have a part-time job, so let’s not be so harsh on the fact that I still live with my mom. I understand the privilege of living at home rent-free, but it doesn’t take away from the fact that my own mom wants to get me out of the house so she can have sex with someone.

Some of you asked about the boyfriend, and yes, he does have his own home, it’s just in another city, and I’ve personally never met him.

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AITA For Telling My 16-Year-Old Daughter That She Cannot Have Sex With Her Boyfriend In Our Home?

From Redditor u/nothereplease_:

Yes. I get it. She is 16. She has a boyfriend. They’ve been together for more than a year. And they are probably having sex. But they do stuff behind closed doors whenever he is here. And I don’t want to know anything about it.

So on Sunday, when we were having breakfast, I brought this up. I told my daughter that she can’t do anything sexual when they are in the house. At this point, my daughter started crying, and she was like, “We are not allowed to do anything in our house and his house. Where should we do anything then? On the street?” She left after that.

My husband had a WTF expression on his face. And he agreed with her and told me that it would be unsafe to do anything outdoors, and it is better if they did it under supervision.

I just can’t believe it. I thought my husband would support me. Was I the a**hole here?

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AITA For Asking My Parents To Stop Having Sex When I’m Home?

From a former Redditor:

I’m an 18F college freshman, and I’m currently visiting home for the holidays. I have a pretty big family with 8 siblings, the oldest being me, and the youngest being my 2-year-old little brother.

My parents got together when they were pretty young, and they just never grew out of their honeymoon phase. They are now in their late thirties. They’ve always been a bit too touchy-feely with each other. They can’t even control themselves when I’m with my friends. It’s honestly pretty gross and embarrassing. I mean, it’s great that they love each other, but jeez, get a room.

Things have only gotten more awkward for me since we moved to a bigger house. In our new home, my bedroom is right next to my parents’ room. Ever since I’ve been here, I haven’t been able to sleep at night because I can ALWAYS hear my parents doing the deed. I mean, the walls are pretty thin, and they aren’t to blame, but I can literally hear my parents whimpering and moaning every night. I can hear EVERYTHING. I’ve been here for 7 days now, and they’ve done it every night, knowing I’m right next door in the adjacent room.

This morning, while my mom was cooking in the kitchen, my dad came right behind her and started nibbling on her ears. It was so embarrassing, I was standing just inches away from them. Seeing them acting out of control, I told my parents to get a room and that they shouldn’t have sex when I’m home, as it makes me uncomfortable. I also told them that I don’t want yet another sibling.

My dad called me a disrespectful brat and asked me to apologize. I feel like I was just speaking out honestly about my feelings about the situation and how uncomfortable their PDA made me feel.