Guy Thinks GF Of 2 Months Will Split A $300k Prize With Him, Gets A Harsh Reality Check

How money ruins relationships

When your finances are healthy, you rarely worry about money. But when you’re struggling financially, money becomes the only thing you think about. And those thoughts aren’t light—they’re stressful, emotional, and often linked to basic survival.

It’s no surprise that money issues in relationships are a major cause of stress—and even breakups.

In fact, studies show that nearly 25% of couples break up over financial problems. That’s a big number. But why does financial stress cause so much damage in love?

According to Andrea Bonior, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist at Georgetown University, there are 5 common money problems that can push couples to the edge:

1. Ignoring Your Own Money Habits

Many people believe their way of handling money is the “right” way. But often, it’s just what they’re used to.

For example, you might:

• Avoid budgeting apps
• Always order takeout
• Skip buying extended warranties
• Expect every cost to be split exactly

Your partner might be the complete opposite.

“We all have financial quirks,” says Bonior. The key is to recognize your differences and have honest conversations about them.

2. Keeping Financial Secrets

Little secrets like hiding shopping bags or moving money from joint savings might seem harmless—but they break trust.

Even minor financial infidelity can make your partner feel betrayed.

“Sometimes the secret does more harm than the action itself,” Bonior warns.

3. Thinking You Can’t Compromise

It’s easy to assume that money fights have no solution. But that attitude can shut down useful conversations.

Even tough topics like debt management or spending limits can be handled if both people stay open and calm.

4. Confusing Spending Habits with Character Flaws

Calling your partner “selfish” for saving too much, or “reckless” for spending, makes things worse.

Try to focus on the specific money behavior—not their personality.

“When you stay focused on one situation, it’s easier to fix,” Bonior advises.

5. Feeling Jealous About Money

Money envy is real—even in loving relationships.

Maybe your partner earns more. Maybe they won a $300K luxury car raffle while you couldn’t afford a ticket. Jealousy happens. But if you ignore it, it can turn into resentment.

The only way to solve it? Talk openly and honestly. Pretending everything is fine will only make it worse.

The woman later revealed they’d only been together for two months